We are all just walking each other home.
– Rumi

Chaille DeFaria

Chaille Defaria

I am a Mental Health Consultant and Professional BFPA™ (Body-Focused Process Addiction) Master Certified Coach who specializes in anxiety and shame, and am a Daring Way™ Facilitator of Dr. Brené Brown’s research. As an emotionally focused coach, I specialize in working with people who suffer with behavioral addiction.

MCC – Master Certified Coach
ICF– International Coaching Federation
Brené Brown – Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator
CNTC – Certified Neuroscience Coach
CRTC– Certified Relational Trauma Coach
Co-Founder-The BFPA™ Resource Center

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Body Focused Process Addictions (BFPAs™)

A New Categorization by Chaille DeFaria, MCC and Karen Pickett, LMFT

All addictions are tough. But what if you’re addicted to something you can never get away from? Your body.

Body Focused Process Addictions (BFPAs™) include pulling out hair, picking at skin, biting at nails, talking excessively and more. 

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Pro rated consultation is the first step.

Coaching is one of the most effective tools to change your brain and level of effectiveness.

I coach adults, young adults, teens and parents; working with clients around the world.
I also facilitate Brené Brown’s The Daring Way™ curriculum as a workshop
and one on one .

Contact me for rates and information.
I am committed to making sure you are getting the help you need.

Take the mystery out of managing your mental health.

Emotional Literacy

The ability to identify emotions and name what we are feeling – puts us in choice. It offers us the opportunity to transform not only the way we see and value ourselves, but how we don’t have to be defined by the things we are not yet ready or able to change.

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Shame is the intensely painful feeling or experience of believing that we are flawed and therefore unworthy of love and belonging.

– Brené Brown